Discovering Grace Even in Suffering
Because of Thanksgiving Day, November is often referred to as the month of gratitude, a theme frequently mentioned in church. Yet, when we look closely, we may find ourselves complaining more than being thankful in our daily lives. Why is it that we often struggle to give thanks? Because there are difficulties we face in life—accidents, illness, financial difficulties, and relationship problems—these often weigh heavily on our hearts, making gratitude feel distant.
In 1 Thessalonians 5:18, Paul writes, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” This verse highlights the power of gratitude—not just for the good things in life, but in every situation. However, this is no easy command. How can we possibly be thankful even in the midst of suffering? I am reminded of a hymn I often sang as a child, “When Upon Life’s Billows.”
When upon life’s billows you are tempest-tossed,
When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost,
Count your many blessings, name them one by one,
And it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.
This hymn encourages us to count our blessings, even when life feels like a storm. In moments of hardship and discouragement, we are reminded to reflect on the blessings we have received. And as the hymn promises, we will be surprised at all that the Lord has done in our lives.
In our Methodist tradition, there is a concept called “prevenient grace.” This is the grace that God gives us even before we are aware of it. We have already received abundant grace through God’s acts of creation, salvation, and God’s constant presence with us. This remains true even in times of suffering. God walks with us through our trials and helps us overcome them.
This is why we can still give thanks. Our lives are filled with God’s grace. Even in the face of suffering, cultivating a habit of gratitude—by counting the blessings and grace that God has already bestowed upon us—enables us to live a richer and more fulfilling life of faith. Amen.
Pastor Jinha Choi
First & Wesley United Methodist Church